"As long as you have a garden you have a future and as long as you have a future you are alive."
-Frances Hodgson Burnett

Sunday, 19 May 2013

Escape to The FM

After 10 days straight we have taken a day off from renovating. Not a moment too soon. An overdue trip into town for supplies was required. With groceries and drywall speedily obtained we called in at the Farmers' Market on the way home.





french rolling pins
art from the beach
train rides
Home in time for a nap on the deck but not before admiring

the Laburnum
and the first rose of summer

So nice to have an unstructured day. Too nice to spoil with the story of my new website disaster difficulties.
I hope you were all blessed with a beautiful day.

Monday, 13 May 2013

Mill Worker's House

Its complicated. Most of you know we are on a never ending quest for our next home. I've whined about renting a house with no garden. So it may come as a surprise when I tell you we have owned a house here for several years. An original mill worker's house in the National Historic District. 


Our plan was to make it our retirement home. Meanwhile we rented it out.  By the time we were ready to move our vision had changed.  We wanted to return to the rural life. Renters have come and gone and last week they went again. The poor old house has taken a beating over the years. We are taking the opportunity to give it a little love. New kitchen and fresh paint throughout.  We have a three week window before the next work trip to Calgary. The mild mannered astronomer I married has turned into a tyrannical construction boss. I am the lowly crew of one.

My computer time has been severely curtailed. When I sneak off again, I want to update you on the progress, or lack of, regarding my new blog and the grand plan to save the world one beautiful step at a time.  It will be a sad and cautionary tale.

Tuesday, 7 May 2013

The Other

Comments on my last post, from Tammy at Casa Mariposa and Laura from I'm So Vintage have been on my mind this week.

In the '70s I was a nursing student by day and a peace, love and freedom hippie by night. A generation removed from the horrors of  world war two and eons beyond that in attitude and experience.  When it came time for my psychiatric rotation I was sent to a beautiful Victorian hospital in the countryside. I was shocked to discover a portion of the patients were men broken by war. Only eighteen or nineteen when hell descended upon them they crawled through life unable to escape the horror. Some of them had been tortured. They still screamed.

Move forward a couple of decades. I am in the pretty little town of New Denver in British Columbia. It was the site of a Japanese , or more correctly, Nikkei, internment camp. In Canada, all families of Japanese descent living on the Pacific coast were forcibly relocated to camps in the interior. Women, separated from their husbands, with small children, some pregnant others ill. The first winter they were in tents under several feet of snow. Eventually tiny two bedroom tar paper shacks were built. Two families to a shack.

Knowing what I knew could I feel sympathy for these families? The answer is yes. They were the "Other". Stereotyped because of their heritage, culture and ethnicity.  Ironically, later in the war, some of the men served in the Canadian army.

It is impossible to eradicate the pain of the past.  We can, however, in a small way, choose a different path. We can listen to and share stories with the "Other".

Nikkei Internment Memorial Museum, New Denver

Sunday, 28 April 2013

Listening

The Nut Gatherers. William-Adolphe Bouguereau
I'm still pondering the act of sharing. For sharing to succeed it must be received. In The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry by Rachel Joyce, the main character is surprised by his ability to listen. His capacity for stillness encourages people to share their stories. These are often painful, confessional and unseemly. Harold is often confounded but his compassion and comprehension strengthen.  I'm all for personal growth. In semi retirement there is more time for such aspirations. I will work on listening. I will seek out stories beyond my frame of reference. I will strive to be in the moment and set judgement aside.  Has someone shared a story which had a profound effect on you?